Morning farts

So, after being away for almost 1.5 months, I suddenly have the inspiration to blog.
In this 1.5 months, things are pretty much the same for me, but not so for the people around me.

The happy news first...
Val got engaged! Woohoo~ Chao proposed to her at Koh Samui with a huge ass ruby-diamond ring
Happy for them~ and onwards to another life stage (and my last bridesmaid duty haha)

Recently I also started working on this digital project with Val for e-commerce called BxG (Beauty & the Green) which focuses on curating organic skincare products around the region back to SG.
And I realised I quite enjoy doing social media marketing...
I'll be going for a SP post-grad diploma in digital marketing starting Oct and I hope I made the right decision.

On other news...
I got to know that Kit is dating Mr B.
I've had my suspicions, which was recently affirmed by her.
Can't say I wasn't entirely disturbed, because to me I will never date a close gf's ex.
Even more so when she knew our entire history and how badly I was affected when we broke up.
And recently, she even told me she thinks she will marry him *rolls eyes*

I didn't want to be sour or pour cold water...
but even she herself said they haven't started quarrelling coz there's nth to fight.
That also made me realise perhaps between Mr B and I, it was just incompatibility (or rather too similar in personality)
Both of us were too defensive.
But anw, back to this... I just replied 'I hope so too, I hope he is ready'.
Because based on my understanding of him, he is not a person who will get married.
And dating him in the long term, you will only lose yourself.

Kit said he is very sweet, like no one's been so nice to her before.
Yeap, that I do admit.  He is sweet, but only at the start.
What I couldn't stand, was what happens when we argued.
He just couldn't admit his mistakes and everything is your fault, essentially, he valued himself more than our rs.

Having said the above, they have lasted longer than we did.
I won't say I had no role in how we ended, a rs requires 2 hands to clap.
I do hope they last, but in the meantime, I don't see the need for me to hear more about their rs.
And this will be the last time Mr B will appear on this blog.

I also accidentally chanced on this stranger's dayre yesterday documenting her dating apps tales.
She met sooooo many guys and I was actually quite sympathetic to her at the start coz she was ghosted by guys, guys didn't want commit but led her on etc...
Reminded me quite a bit of my own experiences haha
But, as the years go by, I realised she sort of lost herself requiring another man to fill her loneliness and happiness.
It was quite painful to read the years later on... part of me wanted to scream at my screen: Please know your worth girl!'
If a guy doesn't reply, get the hint and just move on. Don't bother texting him why he ghosted you and wanting a closure from him, he doesn't owe you shit.  You give yourself closure.

Eventually, she did get attached.
But just 3 months later she posted whether it is possible to have a crush on someone else while attached?
It's super possible to be attracted to others... but I find this mentality very dangerous.
Anw, towards the end I found her to be quite 'damaged'.
And I realised, most girls start off innocent, but after meeting a few bad guys, they get damaged if they don't find their own self worth.

You just need that one good guy you can believe in...

Ok, I'm late to meeting Darius. Abrupt ending hahaha