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For so long, i felt tired.
Bottling up my fears, worries and frustration.
& when i let it all go,
the ans came back to me: ' insecurity '.
When you become real close to someone,
your expectations towards that someone increase.
& when that person didn't manage to reach your expectation,
you try to change that person.
Holding on, trying to change, isn't that so tiring?
Especially when the end results is still not what you expect.
& that's when i realised,
you can't change others, you can only change yourself.
I'm so selfish.
I didn't realise that in a friendship, it concerns 2 person.
& not only me.
I didn't consider your feelings at all,
& just did things for what i felt was best for ME.
But my best was not yours.
& in a friendship, both parties need to give and take.
I should stop being so selfish.
A friendship should complement both of us, & not compromise from one side.
Perhaps we should start by learning to trust each other.
Get rid of all these insecurities.
When you believe, it can work wonders.
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