It's essentially a China Matchmaking show, and there's one famous sentence made by a female participant:
我宁愿坐在宝马里哭,不愿坐在自行车上笑
But today, I went on a date that made me realise, I'll rather laugh on a bike than cry in a Mercedes.So, long story short, my past came to haunt me.
Last week, I received a call from It's Just Lunch, a local matchmaking agency.
This is the agency that I went for profiling 1.5 yrs back, when val signed me up on a whim lol.
I didn't sign their package after 2 hrs of grilling, however, apparently they kept my profile.
So this 'Relationship Consultant' called me and said there's a match and asked me if i'm willing to go on a date.
I was pretty hesitant since I just ended a RS.
But, well, the opportunity came so i was thinking why not.
The guy is called JB.
And his profile sent by the consultant was like to the skies LOL
He is super rich for one (which was true after today's date)
And he goes French Alps to skii yearly
Went UK to study for 4 years (true too).
I was so anxious to meet him coz I was quite scared there would be no convo topics.
But, guess my worries were unfounded.
He is a PSC scholar, smart and well educated... rich too and drives his own car.
But, one sad thing is... I would say he is not much of a gentleman with EQ lol
During the meal, he snarked in a comment - ohh you can be jealous of me.
And that got me quite taken aback, why would i be jealous of you? lol
At the end of the date, he originally wanted to send me back
That was a nice gesture.
But once i said where i stay, he immediately went - ohh I'm sorry I would love to send you back but I need to work.
Hmm... I'll take it as a rejection haha
It's good too, clearly we 2 are not compatible.
But it made me realise, someone so perfect on paper, may not be a good match in real life.
I'm actually quite happy, almost 2 years of mindless dating... I'm definitely much clearer of what I'm looking for in a guy.
Right now, I just wanna take a break as a single (and happy) lady.
And he will come, it's just a matter of time.
Off to ride my bike :p hahaha!
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